The most common words that come out of a teenagers mouth towards their parents are the four dramaic words "You're ruining my life!". Dealing with parents is very hard when your a teenager in high school but believe it or not you can have a good relationship with them.
Everything parents do for you is for your benefit because no matter how much you disagree with them they want to best for you and if that means ruining your life for 24 hours they will do it. I have a really good relationship with my mom, it is no where to be perfect, but I have never told her that I hated her or said that she was ruining my life because we usually don't have reasons to say those words. I tell my mom the truth and she does the same to me, I tell her my problems and she tells me hers, I help her with whatever she needs and she does the same for me. Overall we have a good relationship, we have alot of fun together. But we do fight just like anyother daughter/mother, the thing is we make up.
A lot of teenagers think that they're parents are out to get them, and don't understand why they are getting punish but most of the time the kid deserves it. If you were out past your curfew, you deserve to be punish. Your parents aren't fighting with you for fun, they have a reason to be angry if you broke a rule. Just think about that the next time you think your parents are being unfair, and try to have a good relationship with them, tell the truth, take some responsibility and make time for them. And before you say those four words think about it, are they ruining your life, or are you ruining your own?
I think most kids should have close relationships with their parents,and tell them the truth, parents can trust you more. Telling your parents the truth well make you two closer in the long run.
ReplyDeleteYeah, I understand this. Most teens just need to relax and deal with it, they aren't going anywhere so atleast have a good relationship with them for the time being, it'll onyl make things move faster!
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